So you want to know how to attract younger women, huh? You’ll be happy to know that your age is less important than most men think.
Most women say they’re looking for a man the same age as them and up to seven years older. This does not mean women are not open to dating outside their stated range. Charisma, personality and great conversation skills can trump age up to a point. This is where meeting people in person has the advantage over online dating.
Of course everyone has their limit. If you’re sixty and hitting on twenty-five year old women, you’ll need to be an outstanding individual with several compensating factors thrown in (e.g. fame and wealth) to have any chance of success. Hugh Hefner of Playboy magazine is a great example.
For more reasonable gaps, you can attract younger women by projecting the best possible image of yourself. This means keeping yourself in good physical condition, dressing well, living an attractive lifestyle and being charming and confident.
Men Stay Attractive Longer
Studies show that men’s physical attractiveness peaks at around 31, but recedes quite slowly after that. In fact the average 45 year old man is considered as physically attractive as the average 18 year old. (Women have things a lot worse. Their physical attractiveness peaks at 21 and recedes much quicker than a man’s.)
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Evolutionary Biology is to Blame
You can blame your natural attraction for beautiful, young women on evolutionary biology. Over thousands of years, men and women developed preferences for sexual partners based on criteria that allowed for successful child rearing.
So it’s perfectly normal and natural for an older man to be attracted to young women with clear skin, beautiful smiles, full breasts and ideal hip-to-waist ratios because these have always been signs of health and fertility.
Your Life Experience is Sexy
Fortunately women evolved differently. In an uncertain world, women developed a preference for men able to protect and provide for her and her children. So what older men may lack in physical attractiveness, they can make up for with life experience.
Life experience makes men more confident, responsible, knowledgeable, calm, collected, charming and charismatic. Add financial stability and you have many of the ingredients that women of all ages are looking for in a man.
So it’s not really surprising that many older men are successfully able to attract younger women. Follow the tips below and you can too!
Raise the Age Objection First
Here’s a top tip to attract younger women. When you meet a young woman who you find attractive, raise the age objection before she does, as if it’s a problem for you. Playfully tease her with something like:
“I don’t know if a young girl like you can satisfy the needs of an older, mature man.”
Qualify a young woman by making it seem as if you’re unsure of her life experience. Women absolutely love a challenge so by expressing your doubts in her ability to satisfy you, she’ll subconsciously want to prove you wrong and you’ll automatically become more attractive to her.
Look Younger With The Right Clothing and Haircut
While women tend to be more open-minded when it comes to age and physical appearance, as an older man looking to attract younger women, you should make a big effort to ensure that you at least look young for your age.
Your wardrobe and personal grooming can make a world of difference in projecting a younger and more attractive image. Most men hate shopping and wear the same clothes for many years, totally oblivious to new trends.
Start shopping at trendy clothing stores where you can get professional fashion advice and replace your conservative and poorly fitting clothing. I also recommend getting a subscription to a men’s magazine like GQ to stay abreast of new fashions and to develop a sense for tasteful style.
Women notice this stuff. So even once you’ve upgraded your wardrobe, you should still pick up a few new items of seasonal clothing or accessories each month. This will keep your look fresh and will help to get you noticed by younger women.
If you wear glasses, exchange generic eyeglasses for contact lenses, or at least upgrade to a modern pair of designer frames. If you’ve not changed your hairstyle for years, try a modern cut at a professional hair stylist rather than your local barbershop.
Also if your hair is very grey and you want to attract women a lot younger than you, you might consider dying your hair to project a younger image. If you’re balding, you’ll probably look better with a short cut or consider shaving your hair off completely.
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Improve Your Fitness and Nutrition
Physical fitness is attractive to women and this is an area where young guys clearly have an advantage over older men. Sorry, no shortcuts here. If you’re not in shape, do something about it. Getting yourself into a good physical condition will do wonders for your confidence and self-esteem.
Whether you’re looking to lose weight, gain weight, or simply tone up, excellent nutrition and weight training are the way to go. Join a gym and get a personal trainer for a few weeks if you can afford it. Focus on compound exercises that stimulate multiple muscle groups at the same time.
For example: squats, bench press, military press, dead lifts, leg press, back rows, pull ups, and dips. These exercises will help you to build strength as well as increase coordination and balance. Also don’t forget to do exercises to build your core strength. A strong midsection not only looks great, but will help to improve your posture and increase energy levels.
I’m personally a big fan of working out with kettlebells and I’ve had great results with Ryan Shanahan’s Kettleworx Program. I also enjoy the body weight exercises described in Mark Lauren’s book You Are Your Own Gym.
Make Attractive Lifestyle Choices
Lifestyle choices are key to attracting beautiful young women. At the gym I go to there are several motivating pictures hanging on the wall. However, for me the most inspiring is not a picture of a posing body builder, but a picture of a fit, middle-aged man walking down a sandy beach carrying his surfboard with the waves rolling in behind him.
Despite his age, this man’s youthful attitude and passion for surfing make him an inspiration to me, and no doubt make him attractive to women. In my article about where to meet women I talk in detail about the importance of pursuing your passions, interests and hobbies.
You’ll have more success attracting younger women who share common interests. Best of all, these women will also tend to have similar values, which is a great foundation for any relationship. So your chances of attracting a beautiful, young surfer babe are much higher if you surf yourself — go figure!
Beautiful women love men who have their own interests and passions because it suggests you’re a well-rounded person who is confident and not needy. Also by pursuing your interests you can put yourself in the position to meet more younger women and you could even get fit at the same time.
For example you could:
- learn to dance salsa, swing or rock ‘n roll
- join a co-ed beach volleyball club
- start taking some yoga classes
Make a list of your personal interests and strengths and then develop them further and you’ll put yourself in the position to attract young women with similar interests. You’ll be far more successful at attracting younger women if you focus on a niche interest, rather than trying to appeal to everyone.
Use Stereotypes to Your Advantage
As an older man your maturity and emotionally strong character can be an advantage when it comes to attracting women. But you need to convince younger women that you’re not a stereotypical boring, old man.
Most people don’t realize that you can use stereotypes to your advantage by calibrating your behavior to contrast the behavior of typical men of your age to create both intrigue and attraction.
A mature man who lives a fun lifestyle and remains young at heart becomes much more interesting than a younger man with the same lifestyle, because the older man challenges a woman’s preconceptions, making him seem unique and charismatic.
While women appreciate maturity, they also want a man who is spontaneous, fun and who has not lost his boyish charm. As an older man, you can revive your youthful personality traits to offer younger women the best of both worlds.
The lifestyle choices already mentioned will help you to stand out from the crowd and make a fun-loving impression. Another way to break the mould is to try new activities regularly and make an effort to be more playful and adventurous with younger women. Taking classes in improv theatre or stand up comedy are fantastic ways to revive the spontaneity and playfulness of your younger years.
“A Man Is Only as Old as the Women he Feels”
This is something my step-father used to say to me and it rings true. He is 18 years older than my mother and was able to attract her with his life experience, lifestyle and passion for sailing and travel.
Another thought I find helpful is: Habit is destiny, first shape your habits and then they’ll shape you.
Commit today to optimizing the way you present yourself, invest in your health and fitness, and get passionate about your interests. Don’t let stereotypes dictate the person you should be or the women you can attract. Incorporate these habits into your life and your age will become insignificant to the women you meet.
Don’t Overestimate Your Competition
One final tip. Don’t overestimate the competition. Even young guys these days are caged into the same day-to-day routine. After college or work they unwind at home watching the typical sports, sitcoms and movies or they play video games and waste time online. Then on the weekends they tend to hang out with the same 3 or 4 buddies.
So your exciting lifestyle and lust for life will not only separate you from men of your age, but also from a large portion of the younger population! Good luck attracting younger women and don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments.
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