So you’ve managed to attract a beautiful woman and you want to know how to keep her interested in you?
In your mind she’s a “perfect 10″ and you’re worried that she’ll leave you for some ball player with a fancy sports car. The memory of the ‘10’ that got away can be the most painful memory for a man.
So how do you keep her interested and attracted to you? Yes this is possible, but it’s probably not in the way you think…
How to Keep Her Interested? First, Level the Playing Field
If she’s a “perfect 10″, then what does that make you?
Are you the “lucky 6″, or perhaps even the “good looking 8″ rated guy who was fortunate enough to have a “perfect 10″ happen to date you?
Believe me, hot woman know that there is no shortage of men interested in dating them. They know that they’d have no trouble dating the ‘best of the best’, so there is no reason for her to settle for a second-rate guy.
So what is it exactly that keeps a woman attracted to a man? Confidence. Like all other women, beautiful women are attracted to confident, non-needy men. So confidence is key to keeping her interested in you.
The question is then, how confident are you going to be in yourself if you keep thinking of her as a “perfect 10″ instead of just another woman you’re interested in?
You’re effectively creating a giant of her and sub-consciously reducing yourself to a dwarf not worthy of her. If you think this type of thinking doesn’t show on the outside, then you’re underestimating her female intuition. Beautiful women are spoilt for choice so they’re far less needy than the average women and extremely sensitive to neediness in men.
If you’re going to make a “perfect 10″ out of someone, make sure that person is yourself.
Before you think about how to keep a beautiful woman attracted to you, you need to get the “perfect 10″ illusion out of your head. A rating scale is a unconscious way of putting a girl on a pedestal and will effect your behavior, making you feel nervous and awkward around her.
Sure she might be hot, but at the end of the day, she’s just another girl. So if you’re going to make a “perfect 10″ of someone, make sure that person is yourself. When you do this, you will be doing the most important thing to keep her interested in you…
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Appeal to Her Natural Attraction Instinct
Did you know that it is possible for a woman to be attracted to a guy that is not attractive? If you doubt this, just think about how many drop-dead hot women you’ve seen with very average looking guys. Not to mention all the gorgeous women out there dating obnoxious jerks.
If you’re one of the many men who’ve been puzzled by this phenomenon, it’s because you’ve not yet understood a woman’s natural attraction instinct.
Many beautiful women will claim that they’re interested in a man who is an all-round nice guy. A guy who is polite, good natured and a real family man. So why then, even when they can have a “complete package” man, do they date jerks?
It stands to reason that women don’t understand their own natural attraction instincts either. Both men and women are hardly self aware and often don’t know what that they truly want. That’s why you see people doing things that are completely contrary to what they say they want out of life.
Think of all the people out there who say they want to be rich, but squander their money. Or all the people desperate to lose weight, who continue to make unhealthy food choices and don’t make time for exercise. Most people simply don’t understand what really drives them.
So what are women really attracted to in men?
Safety, survival and security are the key needs that if fulfilled will keep her interested in you. Personal validation and adventure are secondary needs.
The problem is that most men don’t appeal to woman’s need for safety and security because they allow the presence of an attractive woman to intimidate them and weaken their self-confidence.
Lack of self-confidence demonstrates to a woman that you are weak. A woman will translate your weakness on a subconscious level to mean that you are unable to fulfill her primary needs. Of course, not every woman will be able to identify that this is what is happening.
The result is that she’ll lose interest in you and start seeing you as more of a friend than someone she’s attracted to and who she wants to be in a relationship with. Bummer, you just landed yourself in the “friend’s zone”.
“Perfect 10″ women are spoiled for choice in men, so don’t be naive enough to expect her to hang around with a man who lacks self-confidence and who doesn’t have his ducks in a row.
So just how can you appeal to her natural attraction instinct, and keep her interested in you?
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Treat Her Normally to Keep Her Attracted to You
To keep her interested in you, you need to do something that 99% of all the other guys who pursue her have neglected to do. Stop caring about how beautiful she is, stop trying to impress her and don’t let her dictate your value as a man.
Sure, it might seem counterintuitive especially when compared with the lengths other men will go to impress her and win her affections. But consider this for a minute. Just imagine the amount of attention a really hot woman gets.
From the time she is about 16 years old, she probably has at least one hundred men a year interested in dating her… and that’s being conservative. How are you going to stand out from the crowd?
Think about it from her perspective for a minute. Imagine her sheer boredom as one guy after the other desperately tries to impress her, pamper her, cater to her every need, and agree with all her opinions.
Not only that. She’s not stupid and obviously knows these guys are only doing this to impress her and manipulate her to bed. Don’t you think that she’s a little burnt out and looking for someone more genuine?
Meanwhile her friends who aren’t that pretty seem to be meeting really nice normal guys who actually care about them. Don’t you think that would get a little frustrating for her. Imagine everyone evaluating you for how pretty you are and not for your personality or opinions.
The best way to to keep a beautiful woman interested in you is to connect with her genuinely and emotionally as soon as possible. Find something that you like about her other than her looks and relate that to her honestly.
There is some truth in this old saying, “Tell the beautiful girls they’re smart and tell the smart girls that they’re beautiful.”
Why Do So Many Beautiful Girls Date Jerks?
Remember she’s looking for someone who takes the road less traveled who doesn’t try so hard to impress her. She’s looking for someone who is assured of himself, has his own opinions and is not afraid to speak his mind.
Of course this doesn’t mean that you have to be rude or disrespectful to her. And it doesn’t mean you have to be someone you’re not just to keep her interested in you. But this is why so many attractive women end up dating jerks.
These guys are the first to put her in her place if she is being bratty and are the kind of guys who are less worried about what she or other people think.
Sure most of these guys are a little rough around the edges and the women they’re with might even complain about that. But they stay with these guys because they appeal to a woman’s need for safety, survival and security.
Women feel that if a guy is confident and strong enough to be himself despite what others think, then he most likely has what it takes to protect her, stand up for her and keep her safe.
The good news is that you can still be this type of guy without being a jerk, and when you learn to do this, you become the type of man that every woman, even the so called “perfect 10s”, dream of.
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