If you’re wondering how to get a girlfriend, then you already know how tough it is to find a gorgeous, sexy and fun-loving girl who will love you for who you are.
The dating game can feel overwhelming and adopting some “player persona” you “put on” on a Friday night usually just leads to more frustration. Cheesy pick-up lines and phony routines are pretty useless when it comes to building a lasting relationship with the girlfriend of your dreams.
The challenge is knowing exactly how to behave in different situations to successfully meet, attract and seduce the women you want. To maximize your chances of hooking up with a quality girlfriend you need to:
- Understand what women want and how the female brain is wired to confidently navigate awkward situations, avoid flake out and build attraction.
- Be able to read subtle female body language so you can spot who’s available, tell if a girl likes you and know when and how to make your move.
- Have rock solid conversational skills so you know what to say and how to say it to establish immediate rapport and emotionally connect with her.
- Be confident with girls and ignore that inner voice of doubt, not letting excuses hold you back so you can seize opportunities and approach women in the street, bars, shopping malls, and even on public transport.
On a logical level we know they’re just women, yet on another level the fear of rejection by a woman can be as intimidating as death itself.
And that’s only half the battle. To make things worse, there’s a ton of competition for the most beautiful girls. If you hesitate, you could lose her to some douchebag and we both know how crappy that feels.
Look, I’m not trying to get you down. I just want to be straight with you. Finding a gorgeous girlfriend by trial-and-error involves a lot of rejection, frustration and heartache.
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Getting a Girlfriend by “Being Yourself”
If you’re still struggling to get beautiful girls into your bed or if you still haven’t found the fun and sexy girlfriend you deserve, it’s not entirely your fault. For some reason society thinks dating is a natural process that we should get right, without guidance. So we’re left to awkwardly stumble through the process.
Tell me, were their any coaches at your high school to give you tips on how to ask a girl out, how to go in for the kiss, and how to get her from the bar to the bedroom? I don’t think so.
Instead relatives and friends feed you canned advice to “Just be yourself and the rest will come naturally”. Excuse my French, but that’s bullshit and you know as well as I do that it doesn’t work.
Einstein said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. For real, lasting success with women, you need to adopt a new mindset and proven behavior patterns that are guaranteed to build attraction.
Phony Routines Don’t Work Long Term
Now I’m not talking about memorizing cheesy pick-up lines or phony routines. That’s not the answer. It’s just papering over the cracks. Do yourself a favor and forget the myths, lies, snake oil salesmanship, and just plain garbage that’s being taught and sold in the dating and seduction market.
To get a quality girlfriend you need to:
- Understand the nuts and bolts of how attraction really works.
- Know what a woman is thinking when she tests you, so you can respond the right way.
- Master specific actions and behaviors to emotionally connect with a woman and sexually escalate.
- Overcome limiting beliefs and insecurities and make core level transformations for real and lasting success with women.
- Take responsibility for yourself and take action because excuses won’t get you laid and they won’t get you the fun and sexy girlfriend you’re looking for.
Finding a Girlfriend Means Taking Responsibility
If you blame people and society for your lack of success with women then you’re powerless to make change. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you need good looks, money, power or fame. Sure this stuff might help to get you noticed, but it’s not nearly as important as most guys think. It’s just a cop out for guys who are too lazy to too scared to put themselves out there.
So if you’re stuck in the habit of blaming your circumstances, your upbringing, your loser friends who bring you down, or if you’ve convinced yourself that all women are “bitches”, then I’m sorry, but you need to help yourself before I can help you.
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Failure is Part of the Road to Success
Don’t get me wrong, I feel you pain. I know how frustrating it is to not get the results you want and to struggle with feelings of anxiety around beautiful women. The thing is, as long as you take action and choose to learn from your dating mistakes, it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Irrelevant of where you are now, you can improve to a level you never thought possible.
I have failed over and over and over again in my life, and that is why I succeed! — Michael Jordan
Now is the time to stop blaming others and take the next step. It’s time to make the choice to permanently transform yourself into the confident man you were meant to be. Confidence with women is not something you have or you don’t have. Confidence is a state of mind and something that you can learn with practice.
It’s time to feel what it’s like to be on the other side of the dating game, where beautiful women are excited to meet you. It’s time for you to be that guy who has hot sex with his gorgeous girlfriend and who is the envy of his friends.
Don’t Expect Instant and Effortless Results
Look, I’m not going to lie to you and tell you it’s going to be “effortless” because we both know that genuine growth only happens when you push yourself outside of your comfort zone. So if you’re looking for a magic bullet for getting a girlfriend you’re not going to find it here.
And I’m not going to insult your intelligence by claiming an “instant” or “overnight” transformation. But if you follow my advice, you can and will experience breakthroughs small and large, until you reach a point where your friends hardly recognize the cool, confident and charming guy you’ve become and women are naturally attracted to you.
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