Do you want to know how to please a woman in and out of the bedroom? If you’ve been in a relationship, you know that women can sometimes be impossible to understand, much less please!
We all know that women can be difficult. They seem to get worked up about the smallest things and they can be very hard to satisfy. While you’re trying to be understanding, you can’t help wondering what’s going on in her head.
The secret to knowing how to please a woman is to have a better understanding of what attracts women and what women want in a man. So, lets look at these things first and then I’ll give you some advice about how to satisfy a woman in bed.
Please a Woman With Security
The first thing to understand is that women want security from a man. This means being a good provider and being supportive. Women want a masculine man. A man who is confident, decisive, self-reliant, honest in his actions and able to stand up for her.
He should also be able to stand up for himself. This means not changing his opinions to please or impress her, and not letting her boss him around. To please a woman, you must not be afraid to take the lead and make decisions. You should be the one deciding where to go on a date and what to do together on the weekend.
It’s more important to be self-reliant than to consult with her over every decision. By demonstrating that you’re capable of taking on responsibility without feeling overwhelmed, she will feel more secure in the relationship.
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Please Her With Quality Time and Appreciation
In addition to making a woman feel safe and secure, to please a woman, you need to make her feel included in your life. This boils down to spending time with her and watching TV together doesn’t count. It has to be quality time where you really talk to each other, sharing opinions and feelings and generally enjoying each others company.
While it’s important to spend quality time with a woman, it’s crucial that you have other interests outside of the relationship. There’ll be times she wants you to reschedule your plans to accommodate her, but only on rare occasions should you do this. You need to make it clear that your life doesn’t revolve around her or she’ll start taking you for granted.
To please a women and make her feel good about herself, she needs to know that she is appreciated, valued and respected. Even beautiful woman have insecurities so it’s a good idea to learn how to compliment a woman sincerely and show appreciation for her because a women who feels valued will go a long way to satisfy her man.
You Don’t Have to Buy Her Gifts or be a Stud
Many guys make the mistake of thinking they need to buy a woman gifts to please her, but this does more damage than good. Spoiling a woman is counter-productive and sub-communicates that you’re not a man of value because you need to buy her affection.
A confident man of high status doesn’t need to impress a woman with gifts. Only on special occasions should you buy a woman gifts, but don’t expect these gifts to satisfy her emotionally.
Also contrary to what some guys believe, you don’t have to be a stud to please women. When it comes to looks, women are more forgiving than men and find different types of men attractive. Confidence, personality, intelligence, humor are highly valued by women.
Present the best possible version of yourself by paying attention to your posture and body language and remember that a sense of style and good personal grooming are perhaps even more important than natural good looks.
Please a Woman by Reading Her Mind
Men are more bottom-line thinkers and we communicate in facts. Women are more emotional and play a lot of “guess what I’m thinking/feeling” games. As frustrating as this is for men, you’ll be happier if you simply accept this than waste your time and energy trying to change her.
It’s not easy, but to please a woman you need to develop your mind reading skills because women want to be understood without explicitly having to tell you what’s on their mind. They want a man who can read between the lines. By keeping the following things in mind you’ll become a better mind reader and with some luck, you’ll get her back to her usual happy self.
- If your woman is acting up it’s usually because:
- You’re not spending enough quality time with her.
- She’s not feeling valued or appreciated.
- Your behavior is making her feel insecure.
- She wants to be pleased in bed.
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Pleasing a Woman in Bed
For women what happens in the bedroom is the climax of what happens in the rest of your relationship. If you understand how to please a woman emotionally half the battle is already won in terms of satisfying her in the bedroom because she’ll be much more open to you sexually.
Many guys falsely assume that women don’t enjoy sex as much as men do. They think that they have to “earn” sex, by taking her out, buying her things, or by being on their best behavior.
The fact is that women think about sex often and have sexual fantasies just like men do. Women crave good sex as much as men crave sex so it’s important to think of sex as a mutually enjoyable experience, rather than a sexual favor on her part.
One of the reasons some guys think women don’t enjoy sex is that the difference between amazing and mediocre sex is more significant for girls because women often don’t finish at all from mediocre sex. This can be so frustrating for a woman that she’d rather not to have sex at all than have unsatisfying sex.
On the other hand, good sex will increase her sex drive, make her eager to please you, and make her more adventurous in the bedroom.
How to Satisfy a Woman in Bed
Don’t underestimate the importance of foreplay for women. Women consider foreplay as part of lovemaking, not a something separate. Women need to be aroused both mentally and physically and foreplay is vital in building anticipation and getting her in the mood.
The more foreplay, the hotter a woman is going to be and the better the sex is going to be for both of you. As a rule of thumb, spend at least the same amount of time on foreplay as lovemaking.
As long as you’re respectful, women want a man to take control in the bedroom. This means flipping her around or telling her what position to get in or telling her what to say to you. Guys often think a woman is too straitlaced if she’s not adventurous in bedroom, but most likely she just needs you to guide her with authority and confidence.
To please a woman in bed you need to give her a variety of sexual experiences. Sometimes she’ll want to be taken, sometimes she’ll want a good jackhammering and sometimes she’ll want to make love. Women get off on being desired, so don’t be afraid to be physical to evoke her emotions.
Here are some of the many ways to satisfy a woman in bed:
- Gently but firmly pull her hair from the back near the roots
- Kiss her passionately on her neck
- Throw her onto the bed
- Mock rip her clothes off with your teeth
- Massage her breasts and buttocks with your hands
- Slap her ass lightly
Dirty talk is an excellent way to give a woman strong emotions in bed. Strong emotions mean strong orgasms. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that only your physical motions will give her pleasure. The most powerful orgasms will are triggered by a woman’s mind so engage it with dirty and romantic talk while making love.
As she’s getting close to peaking gently encourage her in a low, slow voice by saying:
- “Come for me baby”
- “Get really wet for me baby”
- “Relax baby and come for me”
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