Avoid These 2 Biggest Turn Offs for Women

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The biggest turn offs for women

Can you guess what the two biggest turn offs for woman are? No, it’s not poor hygiene or even a lack of con­fi­dence. The biggest turn offs for women are men who are unem­ployed or who live with their parents.

If nei­ther of these describe your sit­u­a­tion, then I sug­gest check­ing out the top rea­sons why women reject men. If you are unem­ployed or still liv­ing with your folks then read on…

The 2nd Biggest Turn Off for Women is Unemployment

It may seem superficial, but unem­ploy­ment is one of the biggest turn offs for a woman. Secu­rity is a pri­mary female need so big warn­ing lights go off in a woman’s mind when a man is finan­cially insecure. 

This is not to say that you need to be wealthy because it’s not so much where you are now that mat­ters, as much as where you are headed, but unem­ploy­ment usu­ally means that you’re headed nowhere fast.

Depend­ing on your posi­tion, a job might also help to increase your sta­tus in the eyes of a woman. Per­haps more than any­thing though, hold­ing a steady job shows that you’ve “got it together”, and on a sub­con­scious level that you’ll be capa­ble of  pro­vid­ing for a family.

Employ­ment has many sec­ondary ben­e­fits too, for exam­ple the work­place offers a great oppor­tu­nity to improve your com­mu­ni­ca­tion skills, some­thing that women value highly. A steady job will also give you plenty to talk about as you exchange news about your day.

Secur­ing a source of income is not only a nec­es­sary step to finan­cial self-sufficiency, but also for self respect. Men need to work.

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Of course there are cir­cum­stances in which it’s per­fectly legit­i­mate to take some time out. For exam­ple to learn new skills and improve your­self as an indi­vid­ual, or to give some­thing back to soci­ety. This might mean going back to col­lege to study, tak­ing time out to explore the world, or doing some vol­un­teer work abroad or within your local community.

On the other hand, if you’re stuck in a rut and don’t have a job, you need to make find­ing work your pri­or­ity. How much time are you wast­ing in front of the TV or surf­ing online? Be hon­est with your­self. It’s too easy to make excuses and blame the econ­omy or some­thing else for your lack of progress.

Set a goal to research job prospects for at least two hours a day. Set aside another hour to tai­lor your resume to spe­cific employ­ers you are inter­ested in. Draft a good cover let­ter for each, tak­ing the time to address it to the per­son that posted the job descrip­tion. Set aside another por­tion of your day to email your resume and cover letter.

Find­ing a job should be your full-time job, so read books about how to pre­pare for inter­views and make it your pri­or­ity to acquire the nec­es­sary skills for the job you want.  Don’t let your­self be dis­cour­aged. Putting in this effort will do won­ders for your self-image and your per­sis­tence will be rewarded. Who knows, you might even meet your future part­ner on the job!

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The Biggest Turn Off For Women Are Men Who Live With Their Parents

Not hav­ing a place of your own is prob­a­bly the one thing that turns women off the most. Espe­cially if you are a reserved per­son with­out much dat­ing expe­ri­ence, this is just another hin­der­ing sit­u­a­tion that works against you.

It’s one thing if you tem­porar­ily moved back in with your par­ents after col­lege to save money while you pay off your stu­dent loans or if you’ve been laid off work and need a cheap place to stay for a while. But it’s impor­tant you’re aware that this sit­u­a­tion won’t do your dat­ing life any favors, so know when it’s time to ven­ture out on your own again.

Even if your par­ents are wel­com­ing of your vis­it­ing friends, it’s always bet­ter for your social life to have your own place. While it’s nice to own your own prop­erty, of course not every­one can afford it and rent­ing might even be preferable. Renting even a small place, either on your own or shar­ing, can make a huge dif­fer­ence to your suc­cess with women.

Shar­ing an apart­ment with some­one can get you used to deal­ing with peo­ple other than fam­ily, and can help you widen your social cir­cle as you get to know each other’s friends and per­haps even go the occa­sional party together.

Search for place to live in an area on the upswing, with plenty of young peo­ple. It’s true that the most desir­able areas are also the most expen­sive, but you can get around this some­what by get­ting a place that is slightly smaller than opti­mal, or in a slightly less desir­able sec­tion that lets you eas­ily travel to some ener­getic areas of town.

Avoid sleepy sub­urbs that are far from the action — movie the­aters, clubs, restau­rants, shop­ping, friends, meet­ing places, events, gal­leries, muse­ums etc. If it becomes a huge effort and takes too much time to get out, then you’ll be less inclined to make the effort.

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About Tyler Duncan

I'm not naturally good with women. Most of what I know I learned the hard way. I know how it feels to be too shy to approach, to get stuck in the "Friend Zone" and have girls flake on me. Check out this embarrassing post about How I Got My First Slap →


  1. This is so true, how­ever as you know it’s dif­fer­ent for every­one.
    I have a friend who’s 30, works as a car-rental agent part-time, and lives at home with his mom and dad. Yet some­how has women flock­ing at him. I do admit though he is charm­ing, and funny.

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