Can you guess what the two biggest turn offs for woman are? No, it’s not poor hygiene or even a lack of confidence. The biggest turn offs for women are men who are unemployed or who live with their parents.
If neither of these describe your situation, then I suggest checking out the top reasons why women reject men. If you are unemployed or still living with your folks then read on…
The 2nd Biggest Turn Off for Women is Unemployment
It may seem superficial, but unemployment is one of the biggest turn offs for a woman. Security is a primary female need so big warning lights go off in a woman’s mind when a man is financially insecure.
This is not to say that you need to be wealthy because it’s not so much where you are now that matters, as much as where you are headed, but unemployment usually means that you’re headed nowhere fast.
Depending on your position, a job might also help to increase your status in the eyes of a woman. Perhaps more than anything though, holding a steady job shows that you’ve “got it together”, and on a subconscious level that you’ll be capable of providing for a family.
Employment has many secondary benefits too, for example the workplace offers a great opportunity to improve your communication skills, something that women value highly. A steady job will also give you plenty to talk about as you exchange news about your day.
Securing a source of income is not only a necessary step to financial self-sufficiency, but also for self respect. Men need to work.
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Of course there are circumstances in which it’s perfectly legitimate to take some time out. For example to learn new skills and improve yourself as an individual, or to give something back to society. This might mean going back to college to study, taking time out to explore the world, or doing some volunteer work abroad or within your local community.
On the other hand, if you’re stuck in a rut and don’t have a job, you need to make finding work your priority. How much time are you wasting in front of the TV or surfing online? Be honest with yourself. It’s too easy to make excuses and blame the economy or something else for your lack of progress.
Set a goal to research job prospects for at least two hours a day. Set aside another hour to tailor your resume to specific employers you are interested in. Draft a good cover letter for each, taking the time to address it to the person that posted the job description. Set aside another portion of your day to email your resume and cover letter.
Finding a job should be your full-time job, so read books about how to prepare for interviews and make it your priority to acquire the necessary skills for the job you want. Don’t let yourself be discouraged. Putting in this effort will do wonders for your self-image and your persistence will be rewarded. Who knows, you might even meet your future partner on the job!
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The Biggest Turn Off For Women Are Men Who Live With Their Parents
Not having a place of your own is probably the one thing that turns women off the most. Especially if you are a reserved person without much dating experience, this is just another hindering situation that works against you.
It’s one thing if you temporarily moved back in with your parents after college to save money while you pay off your student loans or if you’ve been laid off work and need a cheap place to stay for a while. But it’s important you’re aware that this situation won’t do your dating life any favors, so know when it’s time to venture out on your own again.
Even if your parents are welcoming of your visiting friends, it’s always better for your social life to have your own place. While it’s nice to own your own property, of course not everyone can afford it and renting might even be preferable. Renting even a small place, either on your own or sharing, can make a huge difference to your success with women.
Sharing an apartment with someone can get you used to dealing with people other than family, and can help you widen your social circle as you get to know each other’s friends and perhaps even go the occasional party together.
Search for place to live in an area on the upswing, with plenty of young people. It’s true that the most desirable areas are also the most expensive, but you can get around this somewhat by getting a place that is slightly smaller than optimal, or in a slightly less desirable section that lets you easily travel to some energetic areas of town.
Avoid sleepy suburbs that are far from the action — movie theaters, clubs, restaurants, shopping, friends, meeting places, events, galleries, museums etc. If it becomes a huge effort and takes too much time to get out, then you’ll be less inclined to make the effort.
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