Have you ever been rejected by a woman and been absolutely clueless as to her reasons? One moment you felt like there was a real connection, and the next thing you know she stops returning your calls.
In this post we’ll look at the top 5 reasons why women reject men (listed here from the least to most common) so you can increase your confidence with women and avoid rejection.
Reason for Rejection 5: Poor Hygiene and Presentation
When it comes to hygiene, women usually have higher standards than men and this is one of the big reasons why women reject men. If you want to avoid rejection then it’s very important that you make a special effort in the hygiene department. This is especially important at the beginning of a relationship, otherwise she won’t bother to take the time to get to know.
Before meeting for a date make sure that you shower, wash your hair, wash your ears, brush and floss, clip your nails, shave or trim your facial hair, apply an antiperspirant and nice cologne (without overdoing it), wear freshly laundered clothes and clean underwear.
Stained clothes, worn shoes, unkempt facial hair and bad breath are all big turnoffs for women. Your clothes should make a good impression, fit well and be appropriate for your planned activities, while being comfortable to wear.
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Reason for Rejection 4: Bravado and Self-Absorbed Behavior
There is a big difference between confidence and being self-absorbed, and your dating life will suffer if you can’t discern between the two. You might be surprised to hear that quality women reject men that boast about possessions, income, social status because it suggests that their personality isn’t interesting enough to warrant attention.
Real confidence with women is when you don’t feel the need to impress with material wealth because you have your own measure of self worth.
The more you try to impress women, the more you will be advertising your weaknesses and insecurities. This is a common reason why women reject men, that many men are not aware of.
The best way to impress a woman is to really listen to what she has to say. Be interested in her, rather than try to be interesting to her. There’s a world of difference between the two. Self-absorbed behavior, like when you don’t wait your turn to talk, or you interrupt her when she is talking, is a huge turnoff for women.
Reason for Rejection 3: Complaining about Ex-Girlfriends
Everyone has had bad relationships, but keep them to yourself or you’ll only attract insecure women who are accepting of your ex bashing. Complaining about ex-girlfriends only communicates one of three things to your date, that you:
- That you carry a lot of emotional baggage
- That you cannot manage your relationships
- That you only focus on the negatives
None of these things are attractive and will only increase your chances of rejection by women. In any case it’s not her problem, so deal with it yourself and don’t drag her into it.
A mature woman would withhold judgement until she heard both sides of the story anyway, so don’t expect any sympathy. Your moaning will only demonstrate a lack of confidence.
Also any time you spend ex bashing can be much better used getting to know the girl you’re with. Take responsibility for your relationships and don’t risk the opportunity to bond with your date by wallowing in the past.
Reason for Rejection 2: Indecisiveness and Lack of Confidence
Women are attracted to men who are decisive and confident enough to take the lead in relationships. In general terms, it is the man who is expected to take the assertive role, in everything from the initial approach, to the first kiss, and the act of sex itself. Women are quick to reject men who are not confident enough to take the lead in the relationship.
A woman will tell you if there is something she doesn’t like. Women can deal with a man who knows what he wants, but they are much more forgiving of indecisiveness. Instead of saying, “We can do whatever you want”, make a suggestion or be a man and make decisions yourself.
Another common mistake that leads to rejection is to agree with everything she says, or to try to find out her opinion on something before expressing your own. This shows that you’re not confident enough to stand by your own opinions and will be interpreted as weakness.
As long as you share similar underlying values and are respectful of each others views, different opinions help to keep a relationship interesting, so don’t be afraid to speak your mind.
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Reason for Rejection 1: Neediness and Smothering
This is perhaps the main reason why women reject men, and the topic is more complex than can be summed up in a few paragraphs. The bottom line is that women are repulsed by needy men. In practical terms this means that you need to demonstrate that you have a life and interests outside of your relationship.
Making a habit of rearranging your plans for her or being on call for her only shows that you don’t have anything interesting going on in your life.
If you’re busy when she calls then get her to leave a message, or pick up and let her know you’ll call her back when it’s more convenient. She’ll respect you more for being a man of high status if you don’t always drop everything for her.
Also remember that you’re not the only person in her life so give her time with her friends and family, and to pursue her own hobbies and interests. Less is often more. Women reject men who make them feel claustrophobic so don’t smother her because it demonstrates your neediness and shows that you don’t have anything better to do with your time.
She’ll find you more interesting and attractive if you’re confident enough to give her a little space. And before you know it, she’ll be the one chasing you!
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