If you’re thinking of trying your hand at speed dating then these speed dating tips will help you get the most from the event. Speed dating can be a lot of fun, but it can also be intimidating if you’re not a naturally outgoing and confident with women. Keep these 7 speed dating tips in mind to get the most of your speed dating experience.
Speed Dating Has Many Benefits
Before we dive into the 7 tips here is a quick reminder of the many benefits of speed dating for men:
- Speed dating is a great way to quickly meet a lot of women and increase your dating options.
- It’s an excellent way to practice making a great first impression.
- Speed dating can also be an invaluable means of improving your conversation skills and increasing your confidence with women.
- And it can even help you to desensitize yourself to rejection and approach anxiety.
Tip #7 Know What You’re Looking For
You know, most people never get what they want out of their dating life because they don’t know what they are looking for in the first place.
Go in with a specific set of standards which will help you to identify potential women who you want to meet again. If you have this, you’ll come off as confident and decisive, which women find attractive. It will help you to target your questions and find out what you really need to know about the woman you’re meeting.
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Tip #6 Be Optimistic and Upbeat
Go into the event expecting to get positive results, this will serve two purposes: it will help you to come off as more confident and positive and it will make you more likely to get positive results.
An interesting thing happens when you know exactly what you want and you expect to get it… you usually get it. So take some time to mentally prepare yourself for the event and go in expecting a positive result.
Tip #5 Don’t Commit Too Soon
If you’re going to a speed dating event, make the most of it by keeping an open mind about who you might meet next, even if you meet someone great at the start. Keep your options open and don’t get your heart set on one particular women.
If you do, you might end up missing out on other opportunities because you’re putting all your eggs in one basket.
Tip #4 It’s Okay to Make a List
Since you’ve already determined what you’re looking for in a girl, go ahead and make a list of important questions to ask. Just make sure that you ask a few fun questions as to not come off too serious or businesslike.
Don’t worry about memorizing the questions, it’s completely normal for other people at the event to have a list, so it’s okay for you too.
Tip #3 Dress Well
When it comes to first impressions, appearances definitely matter and every one judges a book by its cover to some degree. So take some time to pick out clothes that compliment your personality and which help you to feel confident and attractive.
Also pay attention to your personal hygiene and grooming. This will make a world of difference in the impression you create.
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Tip #2 Be in the Present Moment
Women can tell instantly when a man is distracted and not present in the moment, so it’s important for you to be present with whoever you’re speaking too. Be a good listener and pay attention to things like body language and facial expressions.
You can often tell a great deal about someone by these things if you’re present and really paying attention. Not to mention that most people are “listening challenged,” especially when they are in a hurry.
Tip #1 Enjoy Yourself
This is really important. Don’t take the event too seriously as that will just make you appear nervous and not confident. Remember, your life is here and now, it’s the only time that you can live in, so make the most of it and have a good time.
Challenge yourself to find something interesting in all of the women you meet, even the women who you’re not romantically interested in, and have fun, even if you don’t think you’ll be seeing them again.
Even the women who you’re not interested in, find something interesting about them and have fun… even if you don’t think you’ll see them again.
I hope you found these tips helpful. Like with any dating, it’s vitally important that you project a positive self-image to demonstrate that you’re a man of value. I’m sure that you have many positive qualities (kindness, generosity, intelligence, thoughtfulness, a sense of humor etc.) so don’t sell yourself short.
Remind yourself that you have a lot to offer and that any woman would be lucky to meet someone like you. This positive mindset will help to boost your confidence. Hold your head up high, shoulders back, smile and let your positive attributes shine through!
And remember, like with any interview situation it’s a two way interaction and it’s perfectly normal to get a little nervous. Everyone has fears and anxieties and chances are that all the women at the event will be nervous too, so don’t let that stop you from getting out there and having a good time.
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